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Is it wrong to have sex everyday? I been having sex everyday. No offence but I am 17. I only use the birth control daily. plus i make my boyfriend wear the condom everyday.
i really do it for the pleassure.
my life is perfect straight A's, good SAT Score, cheerleader and i am popular plus nice body also i am white and blonde the ultimate race
everywhere i go guys drool on me with my minishorts OR WITHOUT (i love the attention). we always use sex toys. Plus my dad is rich and does not care. LIFE IS SWEET | Good for you! *rolling her eyes*
Kinda sad YOUR DAD is rich and you have to wait for the trust fund to kick in when you're at least 21... too bad.
My boyfriend and I have sex multiple times a day WITHOUT a condom. It feels sooooo good. | Why won't my husband have sex with me? Advice from men too would also be great help!? I can't believe I am posting this question, but maybe some feedback from people I don't know will help. Besides this really is kind of embarrassing and I hate to ask anyone I actually know.
Here's the bottom line. It's going on four months at this point, but at any given time my husband and I average sex 4 times a year (6 if I am really lucky). We have been married for 7 years and known each other for 13.
We have tried both Viagra and Levitra - he hates the side effects.
Knowing that he had been depressed with different things his doc put him on Wellbutrin. Not only is this an anti-depressant, but it is one that helps to increase sex drive. I see the effects on his depression (which was mild), but not in libido.
Yes, I have a much higher sex drive than he does, although to be accurate before me going two weeks without sex was forever to him.
We had so many arguments over this because I have wants and needs and I feel that sometimes he should just have sex for the sake of making me happy. God knows, I am not a perfect wife, but I will do things that are more time consuming and less fun just because I know it will make him happy.
I also stopped arguing about it, as I do realize this puts added pressure and makes sex even more undesirable. I have not brought it up in about 9 months.
Although I am not a supermodel, I am not ugly either. Middle of the road normal woman I think. In fact, I did just lose a bunch of weight, making me more attractive than before - though these problems were before and after weight loss.
I have asked for counseling numerous times - he refuses, he won't budge on this one, so the point is moot.
I have tried coming onto him, this leads to rejection. And always with the stupid excuse that I pick the worst times to want to have sex. He's tired, in pain, etc although even with all that he can still manage to do other things.
I have tried sexy nighties, sex toys, porn, telling him I was going upstairs to masturbate thinking this might spur some type of action out of him.
I cannot talk to him about this anymore as I feel like garbage. I just want him to want me sexually and it seems the thought never crosses his mind. Which is total BS, because really, I know all men are different, but never wanting it? Not believable!
I have even stopped talking directly about our sex life for fear it will be perceived as an attack on him, making things worse. I have tried dropping very subtle hints - not even about us, just sex in general or so, thinking this might get the ball rolling.
Even tonight, we were able to have both of our guys gone (our anniversary was the other day) so we went out to dinner to celebrate - his idea. Now we have a house with no guys and I am in bed typing this and he is watching TV downstairs. Before I even came up here I made sure to get into the shower and walk all the way through the house to the bedroom in just a towel (see subtle hint).
Yes, I know taking care of oneself is all well and good. I have done it numerous times. However even this has become great stress because I want to be touched, kissed, made love to (or even downright hardcore porn things if that's his mood then - doesn't always have to be lovey and romantic, just sex). Masturbation is almost impossible because although the ultimate desired effect is fulfilled I just end up sobbing afterward that I am resorted to that. If sex was once a week but me needing it more, than masturbating would be fine. But when it is 3 - 6 times a year always having to do for oneself becomes so much more lonely. Especially when I will drop the hint that I am going to "rub one off" I am so horny and he can't pull himself away from the TV to "come help me with that".
And no he is not gay. Can't be as positive about cheating, but I doubt it. Although I have had suspensions, I am a woman and I also know that sometimes we can blow things way out of proportion.
I cannot come on to him and I cannot initiate sex as the rejection has been so frequent and/or blunt that my psyche just can't take any more.
Sorry this is so long, and that suggestions can be limited because I have tried everything I can think of. But I cannot put myself out there for any more rejection, I can't take it.
And yes, all his parts work. It isn't a medical problem. And I feel I have been patient long enough. I cry myself to sleep (crying now as a matter of fact). I just want to be touched, to be desired, to be wanted. Is that to much to ask, am I being selfish? I don't expect everyday (although I would be up for it), but I previously talked to him about maybe once a week. I don't think that is unreasonable.
Also, yes the 3-hopefully 6 times a year he wants it, I give in (although part of me wants to reject him for his constant rejection of me, part of me doesn't like the fact my needs are ignored but when something comes up I a | WOW what a wife! I mean you seriously have done everything I was going to suggest! He should be extremely thankful. I would say take a trip or vaccation just the two of you but seeing that you had the house to yourself and he still didn't want too makes me think you will get the same result.
I'm going to assume that you've asked what you can do? and it hasn't changed? Either way this is a serious problem. In my opinion he's being a real jerk too and extremely selfish.
My best advice is this you need to start seeing a counselor perhaps go see one by yourself for the first time. Tell him/her what's going on and ask for advice. At the very least the counselor can help guide you through this. The counselor can probably help you get your husband into the counseling also.
I'm OCD and see a counselor about once a month. I had to see 4 different counselors before I found one I liked. The KEY to finding a good counselor is finding who does it because they ENJOY what they do and not in it for the money. You also need to make sure they have similar/common morals and beliefs as you. I'd also recomend looking for one that specializes in Family and Marriage counseling you don't want one who mainly deals with addictions. It might take a bit of looking but you will find one.
Anyway good luck and I hope it all works out. | How do you turn on a guy to the ultimate GUYS AND GIRLS? I dont have any toys but handcuffs. Dont have any lingerie. Just have lubricant. and handcuffs other than that what can I do to play with him or to satisfy him before having sex.. plz help GUYS AND GIRLS | love and plenty of love... no need to have toys..
thats the most turn on for all.... | Which is a better vibrator? So I'm wondering, which rabbit is better? I can only get one >_<
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www.arentwenaughty.com/sex-toys-for-women/vibrators/waterproof-ultimate-rabbit-vibe-clear-p2588.aspx | | Get a rampant rabbit with a clitoris stimulator. | It is okay to have premarital sex even if its againts your religion? I am a Muslim woman and as of late been toying with the idea of having premarital sex. Thing is I'm a little anxious because fornication is like the ultimate sin. I think so anyway. But then, one have to move on with the times in todays' world. So what do you think? Should i go for it? Have fun, live life to the fullest? Or be a good little Muslim girl? I'm 20 by the way. | Here is an answers from a muslim
You know it is against Islam 's teachings , don't you ?
Every body here ( or most of them ) encouraged you to do it , but you are different , you understand your religion better then them , are you ready to do it and stand before God on the day of Judgement and face that ? what are you going to say ? how are u going to justify it ?
Coping with the world is not this way , you get educated , get knowledge , follow the news , dress with the fashion ( but in a modest respectable way ) , but having premarital sex to cope with the world ? Say sth deeper and more convincing plz.
We are in Ramadan , pray and ask for God's help , | Want to suggest a few things to my younger boyfriend? Im 42yrs, got a 30yr old boyfriend. He is crazy about me and treats me like a princess. I love him, and he loves me. The thing is, obviously Im more experienced than him, but Im surprised how little experience he actually has in the bedroom. Im an open, adventurous person and dont know how to suggest being more adventurous. If anything, you would think it would be him trying to talk me into being up for most things, but its the other way around! I think that deep down he's really just a bit shy about stuff and because Im older is waiting for me to take the lead. Im not talking threesomes or swinging here!!!! I just mean sex toys, porn films( which I know he has watched, so he isnt a prude) sex during the day, in my car, in the shower, nothing too heavy that would freak him out. Any suggestions for the ultimate seduction would be cool! Can think of a few myself!!! Just would be good to hear from anyone out there with the same prob. Guys viewpoint welcome(genuine replies) | well, start with watching the porn together, it should all p-an out from there
good luck | Question for the Fire signs............? is this true about you and what you're like in bed?
ARIES
March 21-April 20
Ruling Planet: MARS
The bonk now/think later God of War, aggression and action!
Sexually, Aries is an explosion waiting to happen! The excitement is often in the chase more than the actual conquest though and while they may appear to want to dominate, they do n! ot want a submissive partner. Routine brings boredom to sex for Aries, so if you're only comfortable with the missionary position, go for another sign, but if you like forceful personalities and enjoy pretending you're a human Twistie, then you've found paradise with an Aries.
FAVE POSITION
Always on top and always in charge
BEST SEX TOY
Handcuffs! Like I said, Aries likes to take charge!
ARIES MALE IN BED
The Aries male is loud, domineering and 100% stud! He's from the bump n grind school of lovemaking so if you're looking for romantic dinners by candlelight and long walks on the beach, keep looking! He's the original 5-minute man so if you're turned on by ultra-macho grunt-and-groaning types, you've just found your ticket to heave! n! He's not prone to cheat unless you bore him in bed and he likes sex fast and furious baby!
ARIES FEMALE IN BED
She views sex as more of a physical act than something from a soppy romance novel. If you're a bored exec and want to find out what it's like to be treated like a piece of meat, then go for a one night stand with an Aries chick. She'll be gone before you wake up and may not remember your namethe next time you meet. She's got a touch of KINK to her personality so don't get freaked out when she talks dirty or puts you over her knee for a spanking. She's all woman, but are you man enough to handle her?
THE BEST WAY TO TURN ON ARIES
If you want to seduce an Aries, running your fingers through their hair is an awesome starting point! And licking and nibbling around their face or neck will get them going ! too! Just be careful to keep your saliva at bay. Drool is not cool!
LEO
July 24 - August 23
Ruling Planet: THE SUN
Which isn't a planet at all, but a star, and just like Leo's opinion of themselves, it's the centre of our solar system!
Leos can be very 'into themselves' when they bonk. It's not that they don't make their partner feel special, it's just that they often forget about them as they secretlyhigh-five themselves for scoring again! Leo does actually want more from a partner than just sex though. Leo wants love and friendship too. They can be very romantic, but when they get into bed, it's not an experience they're about to have, it's a show! They like to perform... and they take requests! "Doing it" is the ultimate stress buster for Leo and they are pretty damn good at it, but they need constant praise for their outstanding performance.
FAVE POSITION
Receiving 'oral affections', since Leo is all about getting serviced!
BEST SEX TOY
A camera, or a game of Strip Poker will get the cat purring or perhaps you can use them both together!
LEO MALE IN BED
You are the King of the Jungle and expect to be treated that way! You are a good lover because you don't like to fail at anything. You are sexy and have an aura of sexiness that is difficult to deny. But, you will let anyone adore you, so your partner has to make the effort or you will pad off to your next Lioness!!
LEO FEMALE IN BED
You are elegant and sexy without even trying. Men love you and women want to be you. You like to play cat and mouse with men and command respect. In bed, you are a real panther and can scare the pants off most men. You adore raw sex, so your partner should go with you and enjoy it. You're a once in a lifetime experience!
THE BEST WAY TO TURN ON LEO
A Leo's 'moan zone' is his or her back. First of all, ask your Leo to roll onto his/her tummy. Start with a gentle scratch that runs from the top of the *** to the base of the skull. I'm not talking about tender tickles or a tantalizing tease - I mean a REAL back scratch, coz if there's one thing cats love, it's a scratch! After a minute or so, get out the massage oil and spill it into a snakey pattern on Leo's back. Then rub all over. Keep doing this until you know Leo is ready to roll over. If they start! falling asleep, give them a gentle prod in a delicate place! Once Leo is ready to roll over, don't let them! Leo will be excited by your control. YOU decide when it's time to 'flip your feline' over and get into the good stuff!
SAGITTARIUS
November 23 - December 22
Ruling Planet: JUPITER God of money, luck and good times between the sheets.
Sagos are playful, laid back and oh-so fun to party with. They are wild, and may be the BADDEST party people you ever meet! One thing to be wary of is that Sagos like to talk BULLSHIT! Don't believe everything they tell you because they are kings at 'talking it up'.Sagos probably make better friends than lovers, but if you happen to score a one-nighter with them,be prepared to do st | wow yeah they hit it on the head with leo's!!! I love to video me n my guy... and yes i do watch it later, why spend money on porno when u can make ur own!! i do love to be rubbed and scratched as they said in how to turn a leo on, i had a guy do it just right once, with the not letting me turn over and taking the control and let me tell u, i lost it, it was the best sex ever!! he had me begging for him to let me have it!! Never thought about "scaring the pants off of a man" before i guess i just thought it was the norm and that everyone was wild and crazy in bed. hey never had any complaints though!!
By the way i also bet if u look at the answers to this that the leo's are all the longest!!! we just love to talk about ourselves!! lol. | My wife is bi curious and is open to experimenting with another girl or couple should we? After a recent discussion with my wife, we talked about how the taboo of having sex with another couple and watching each other get pleased by someone else was a huge turn on. We have never done any of this before but we have had sex in front of friends and talked about her curiosities. She and I are both actively involved in giving oral to each other, anal sex with her, using toys, watching porn together, and role playing fantasies we each have like me acting like I'm someone else, or her playing the same role. She and I both get really turned on in the moment when comments are made like if I said I would really love to watch her going down on another girl or vice versa and it prompts later discussions on pursuing the interests. She told me the other day that she has always wanted to get with one of her really good friends and the idea of knowing her friend has been with other girls is a big turn on to her. I know she is serious about the experimenting because she has asked her if she would do it, but like any girl would react her friend said she's nuts. Where as my wife said, that is was her who was being weird and she wants to has sex with her. After playing with the idea we've both said it's an ultimate fantasy to see each other having sex with another person and using it to ultimate please each other, but are we veerin into troubled waters if we pursue this sort of thing? I know there are mixed responses, but if we set boundaries, that If we get her friend to agree to have sex with her and the only girl I have sex with is my wife and her friends only their for her pleasure can it go badly? I'm wanting to explore each others fantasies but in a sense where we are doing it for each other but neither of us want the negative repercussions if it doesn't go well. I've suggested next time we foreplay, she should close her eyes and pretend she is with her friend, and imagine that it is her friend pleasing her and we both agree it would be nice to do. Good ideas or no? | | You may really want to think about this before you do it. Sometimes a fantasy needs to stay a fantasy. People tend to downplay what something like this will mean to an individual's feeling. Below I have included an article that you should read before you go through with it. I'm pretty sure your marriage is worth a couple minutes of reading. | Orgasm issues? i cant get an orgasm! ive tried everything toys, touching myself, big d**** nothing works, when i masterbate i cant hold out long enough to get an orgasm, like ill try and i can go but its impossible to do anymore.... i dont know ive touched myself pleanty of times but i cant get an orgasm, whats wrong me? sex always feels good but i just cant get the ultimate feeling, does anyone have any ideas/tips? or had this problem and solved it? please i need some advice!! | | just a thought, have you every tried a gang bang??? This works for some girls | A few quikies for you now i thought that they are funny do you yes or no? Q. How can you tell when an auto mechanic just had sex?
A. One of his fingers is clean.
Q. Why does a penis have a hole in the end?
A. So men can be open minded.
Q. What's the biggest fish in the world?
A. A hore, if you catch one you can eat her for months.
Q. How can you tell if your girlfriend wants you.
A. When you put your hand down her pants and it feels like you're feeding a horse.
Q. Have you heard about the new 'Mint flavored birth control pill for women that they take immediately before sex?
A. They're called 'Predickamints'
Q. What is the difference between a golf ball and a g-spot?
A. Men will spend two hours searching for a golf ball.
Q. What's the difference between a toad and a horny toad?
A. One goes "ribbit" the other goes "rub it".'
Q. Did you hear about the guy who finally figured out women?
A. He died laughing before he could tell anybody.
Q. What's the difference between Mad Cow disease and PMS?
A. Nothing.
Q. How do you confuse a female archaeologist?
A. Give her a used tampon and ask her what period it's from.
Q. Why does the bride always wear white?
A. Well aren't all kitchen appliances that colour?
Q. Whats the difference between parsley and pussy?
A. Nobody eats parsley.
Q. What's green, slimy and smells like Miss Piggy?
A. Kermits Finger
Q: What do you do with 365 used rubbers?
A: Melt them down, make a tire, and call it a Goodyear.
Q: What's the difference between sin and shame?
A: It is a sin to put it in, but it's a shame to pull it out.
Q: What's the speed limit of sex?
A: 68 because at 69 you have to turn around.
Q: What's the ultimate rejection?
A: When you're masturbating and your hand falls asleep.
Q: Why did Raggedy Anne get thrown out of the toy box?
A: Because she kept sitting on Pinocchio's face moaning, "Lie to me!"
Q: Why is air a lot like sex?
A: Because it's no big deal unless you're not getting any.
Q: What did the egg say to the boiling water?
A: "How can you expect me to get hard so fast? I just got laid a minute ago."
Q: What did the potato chip say to the battery?
A: If you're Eveready, I'm Frito Lay.
Q:What's the best thing about a ********?
A:Ten minutes of silence!
Q: What's the difference between a lesbian and a Ritz cracker?
A: Ones a snack cracker, and the others a crack snacker!
Q. How are a lawyer and a prostitute different?
A. The prostitute stops ******* you after you're dead.
Q. What has one hundred balls and screws old ladies?
A. Bingo
Q. What is a zebra?
A. 26 sizes larger than an "A" bra.
Q. What did the blind man say as he passed the fish market?
A. Good morning Girls
Q. What's the difference between a woman and a fridge?
A. A fridge doesn't fart when you pull your meat out!
Q. How does a man show that he is planning for the future?
A. He buys 2 cases of beer instead of one.
Q. How is being at a singles bar different than being at the circus?
A. At the circus, the clowns don't talk.
Q. Why do men find it difficult to make eye contact?
A. Breasts don't have eyes.
Q. How many newspapers can a woman hold between her legs?
A. One Post, two Globes, and many Times.
Q. What's the difference between a whore and a *****?
A. Whore's **** everyone at the party, Bitches **** everyone at the party except you.
Q. Did ya hear about the new "morning after" pill for men?
A. It works by changing your blood type!!
Q:What do you call a truck full of dildos?
A:Toys for Twats
Q. How do you get four old ladies to shout "****"?
A. Get a fifth old lady to shout "Bingo!"
Q. What do a Rubix cube and a penis have in common?
A. The longer you play with them, the harder they get.
Q. What does an old woman have between her breasts that a young woman doesn't?
A. A navel.
Q. What is the difference between a woman and a washing machine?
A. You can bung your load in a washing machine and it won't call you a week later.
Q. Why did god create Adam before he created eve?
A. Because he didn't want anyone telling him how to make Adam.
Q. What is a lesbian's favorite thing to eat?
A. A Klondike Bar
Q. What did the elephant say to the naked man?
A. "How do you breath through something so small?"
Q. Why don't women wear watches?
A. There's a clock on the stove! | | Brilliant |
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