What "mainstream" movies show female masturbation scenes? My friend & I are trying to make a list of some regular Hollywood movies (NOT porn movies!) that have any female masturbation scenes. A couple that we've seen are "9 1/2 Weeks" and "Mulholland Drive". Any others? :) |
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Female Masturbation - Girl on Girl only porn? How "normal" is it for a woman that claims to be a straight female to only masturbate to girl on girl porn? My girlfriend says she's 100% into me, but men in porn movies disgust her. Is she possibly bi-sexual, bi-curious, lesbian? |
| Probably curious I say go with it nothing more hot than going to a strip club and getting a lap dance with your girl. Don't worry she straight just consider yourself lucky |
Answer questions on female masturbation......?(Girls only please!! Sorry if gross.)? Last night, and for a few weeks now I've been masturbating, but I don't get an orgasm out of it, let all much...pleasure in general.
I have tried a few things like; watching adult movies, getting completely naked, making a thrusting motion when I finger myself, carressing my boobs/stroking my vagina and then doing it....I get feelings sometimes, but they're not great/good......Am I doing something wrong???
Are there any other things that can help, apart from fingering and sex toys (i live with my parents!). Also, is there a certain part of your vagina to touch to achieve extreme pleasure, and quickly...if so what/where?
And finally how often do you think its wise to masturbate? I was thinking every 3/4 months or so.... |
I know you said "girls only", but I am a practicing gynecologist. I hope you'll allow my input on this tender subject.
My advice is this... go for gentle and subtle. Concentrate on lightly touch, lightly stroke. Forget thrusting motions and such.
One other bit of advice... Get a little bit of warm water, and put some baby oil into this water. Mix it well and then dip your finger into it. This will make your fingers smooth and silky and will make gentle and subtle more effective. (and it's a nice warm feel, too.)
One last thing. work on being "around" the edges of your vagina, and up above your opening. Worry less about being "inside" your vagina.
John Jones, M.D. |
Erotic movies has a "explicit material" effect on women? i mean ,for men are erotic movies not very explicit material..its just a little turn on... but the female seems like to have a much ""dominant"" role in this movies...have you ever seen a man in a erotic movie exposing his genitals?lol ..thats impossible..thats only occur in porn..but in erotik movies they always exposing women genitals and people in this movies talking about women genitals and female masturbation etc..can this have a effect like a pure porn movie on a woman? |
How are you defining the term "erotic movie?" Because hardly any mainstream movies show a man's genitalia and, of the two where I can recall seeing them (one was THE PIANO where Harvey Keitel showed all and the other, whose name I can't recall, starred James Woods and Kathy Bates where Mr. Woods showed his impressive package in a scene in the rain), they weren't what I would call "erotic."
It's all about the rules for the film industry. It's men on the committee so it's OK to show women's "t&a" but not show men's geintalia.
From what you're saying about "erotic movies" then I'd say I'd prefer porn. However, I generally stick to mainstream movies because they have an actual plot. Porn generally does not. |
My girlfriend does not know what is masturbation she is 18? i talked to her on the phone last night and came to know she hasnt masturbated even once ;she says she hasnt felt herself
but she has seen porn movies she says....
she hasnt dicussed about sex with her other female collegues
she is 18 ...is it normal....should i teach her how to masturbate ? |
first off, texasman, you are extra ugly for saying the female sex toy industry is a 100 billion dollar industry. GTFO here with that outlandish number.
secondly, why the hell would you teach her how to masturbate unless you see nothing wrong with that. guys don't go around teaching other guys to masturbate. just tell her to touch herself and she'll figure out the rest. |
I have a question? i need vivid details of female masturbation. or any sites with movies of female masturbation. im not a perve i really doing a report for sex ed. i no a lot of schools dont teach it anymore but my school does. but i need vivid details of female masturbation.someone else is doing male masturbation
i know this should be in womens healt but here i know i probably will get more hits |
| Go rent a porno!!!! |
Boyfriend gets horny/masturbates to celebrities.? Well, I'm having this problem for a while to accept and get over the fact that my boyfriend (19 yrs old) of a year gets hard when we watching (normal) movies in theater with beautiful women. Or that he masturbates to certain female movie stars - yes he tells me the masturbation part now and then and I do appreciate the honesty. I know that many boyfriends don't tell their girl who they sometimes masturbate to exactly. I'm not one of the girls who want to forbid him looking at girls, partly because I know I could never change that. I understand that "He's just a guy!" which means that men get visually stimulated while women are more psychological.
People always respond to those kinda problems with "Oh don't YOU think about and look at other guys?" or "don't YOU fantasize about other guys?". Well of course yes. I appreciate beauty, and beauty is what attracts us naturally. I have my own celebrities crushes. All women do, and they all look at other men when they see them, exactly what men do. However, the difference is: I don't download their half-naked picture and masturbate to it. Can I get your opinion on this topic or any advice that doesn't say if I fantasize about other guys, because I don't, but I do look at hot guys, but do not feel the urge to masturbate TO them. |
| Be grateful that he isn't jerking off to animals or little guys. He's going to masturbate for the rest of his life so you might as well just forget about it. |
What are the cons of masturbation? I'm asking this question because Cynical Toothbrush asked it 4 hours ago and it closed before I could answer.
And I really want to answer because there is a very big con.
This won't be too popular with most yahooers but here goes.
I asked my pastor if God would mind if I masturbated now that my wife's ditched me and the thought of going without sex for a week, let alone a year, was terrifying me.
We split up 6 years ago and I became a born-again not long after. Before that I'd been an atheist for 40 years.
And the pastor thought it'd be OK as long as I didn't fantasize about anyone I wasn't married to while I was doing it. But to be on the safe side he referred me to another pastor who was also a pro counselor. He told me it was definitely OK.
So far so good.
But not long after I found out they were both wrong. I did a bit of research into the sex thing and made some surprising discoveries.
Turns out what my saintly Catholic mum tried to tell me for years was right. You should wait til you're married before you do it and so should your wife.
Because when we orgasm there's this psychological/physical bonding mechanism that goes into action, and it's this that you both need if you want a stable long-term marriage. I.e. the research shows that virgins who marry virgins tend to stick together til death.
If you’re bonded to 15 women you can’t really be relied on to stick for more than a couple of years. Same goes for your wife (with 15 men).
And teen suicides correlate alarmingly with sexual activity. When you sleep with a girl and she dumps you it's no laughing matter, tho plenty do laugh about it - when it's happening to someone else.
Having that strong psychological bond with a girl who doesn't care for you and goes off with another guy is a recipe for tragedy. I suspect it's the detonator in most if not all of those "estranged defacto shoots ex, guys, sets fire to the house and suicides" news stories.
What's this got to do with masturbation?
God knew what He was doing when He gave us sex. It's probably His most loving gift to us. And He tells us in the bible (see refs to adultery and fornication) that it's for married couples only. It's part of the "What God has joined together..." scenario.
If you masturbate you'll dilute the experience when you get to do it with your wife. Therefore you wont enjoy that anywhere near as much, neither will she, and you'll lose that strong bonding effect which is designed to join married couples together for the long term.
Plus it's a very self-centered activity and will likely reinforce selfish tendencies in a person, which also make life-long bonding that much more of a challenge.
For me the clincher is that God doesn't want me to do it. But I realize that's not going to be much of a concern for unbelievers.
Hope this helps. Sorry if I've annoyed anyone.
BTW, re my own deprivation, I found out I had nothing to worry about. I've been celibate for 6 years without any problem. I just asked Jesus to help me with it, put it in his hands so to speak, and he took away the strong sexual urge I'd been plagued with all my adolescent-adult life.
For my part I had to avoid as far as possible any sexually provocative scenery, and really that's all it took.
I think it's a myth that men have to have out-of-control sex drive. Most of it is a product of all the porno TV, movies, books, mags, and scantily dressed females walking around the streets. |
I whole heartily agree with you.
Even without God the physiological side affects including that of selfish and habitual behavior should be reason and logic enough to deter such support for such a thing. I know the 'health benefits' but that's a weak resting point. Uncontrollable urges are controllable most easily through Christ.
Human Integrity. Respect. Purity. |
Test on delicate argument? This is a test about female masturbation. I'll like that the answers will be serious. This is just curiosity.
1)What's your name?
2)How old are you?
3)How old were you when you did it the first time?
4)Do you do it regularly?More of one time in a day?
5)Where you stay when you do it?
6)How you do it?If you won't answer go to 6bis
6bis)Do you prefer external stimulation or also do you prefer to penetrate yourself?
7)Do you use any object?
8)Have you ever licked the fingers after you do it?What is the taste?
9)Someone discover you while you do it?What's happend?
10)When you do it you say something?
11)What do you think when you do it?
12)Do you become wet a lot?
13)Do you undress to do it?
14)Have you ever do it in front of a pc?
15)Do you see some hot pic o movies when you do it?
16)Sometimes you do it to free from nervous?
Thanks to all girls. |
| And what would be the passing grade on this little "Test"? |
I just found out that....? my boyfriend goes to an online live webcam female masturbation website and talks to the girls... him and i or so i thought had a very open relationship we've gone through his porn together watched the movies we have a great sex life... he says "wow we can so do that again" so i know it's good on his side too... but some part of me thinks this is a form of cheating and he said when we were going through his porn that it helps men to keep things fresh in the bedroom... i came up with a story about what i found and put it into a dream and told him he said you have nothing to worry about baby... i promise. what should i do?? how would you feel?? i need a little perspective!! help!! |
| A live webcam female masturbation website........now thats just kinda odd....I know all guys look at some form of porn but i didnt even know such things existed... I would be a little upset I think... In my book that would be cheating at some degree.. |